What is your MRFH?

"Behind the mask of summer sun,
the green rush of spring,
the peace of winter’s silence,
and autumn’s fiery crown
there are only moments strung together".  Arlene Gay Levine

What is your MRFH?  Your MRFH is not only important, it may be the most significant measurement in your life.   If you have a high MRFH, then you will probably live a life of dissatisfaction and frustration.  If your MRFH is low then you stand a very good chance of living a rich and fulfilling life.

The most difficult thing about your MRFH is not living it, but finding it.  The problem with any MRFH is that it differs from person to person.  It is not one size fits all. The number is different for everyone.  So you can't compare your MRFH to someone else's to determine if your number is right.  The only way to determine if your number is right is if it's right for you. If your H is eluding you then you haven't found the right number.

It is very difficult, but not impossible, to have a high MRFH and achieve fulfillment.  Jesus spoke about this to the rich, young ruler and the eye of the needle thing.  This however would require near unlimited resources.  And even with the resources the H would elude you if it was not tied to your own core values.  And with any MRFH, it is a certainty  that these values would need to have little or nothing to do with those resources. On the other hand someone with a low MRFH can be fulfilled regardless of their resources.  It is possible, and even probable, that with a very low MRFH  you will experience most, if not all, of the things that matter most to you. Isn't that  the most important  R for H?

So if you find that you are not H, instead of thinking that you need to have more and to be more, just lower the M.R. With a very realistic and low Minimum Requirement For Happiness, you may be surprised how happy you become.